Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Long days...longer nights
I am actually very happy about the post. Yeah, I was having a slow day and did it to kill time but then I did show a lot of patience in doing it and people who know me, know that I am NOT the patient types. And this feels good...it actually feels really good.
Oh, guess what. I will be going on another trip this weekend with folks from work and thats gonna be fun too. Would look to post some more pics and stuff, thats assuming that I can hold the camera and point it in the right direction after all the alcohol consumption that is...
Ahh alcohol consumption, a beautiful subject. Thats another post in the making....
Sunday, May 6, 2007
Day 5 in Kayrala
Woke up awfully late, around 10 in the morning and headed back to his place for breakfast. Once I was through with breakfast we planned out the day's activities. He wanted to spend the day out shopping and showing her around the city. I had been instructed by folks at work to get them banana and jackfruit chips and black halwa. So a day in the city it had to be and we went ahead and hired a Qualis and did just that. Lunch, shopping and another trip to the beach was all packed into one day. The last thing we did was to go to the harbour where the fishing boats were coming in with their catch for the day..Not such a smart thing to do because we absolutely stunk of fish just by walking around the harbour. The picture of the fishes was the last one I took in Kerala because my battery ran out as well.
Come 9 PM and it was time to head out to the bus stand to catch my bus back to Blore. Incidentally, I had never travelled in a Volvo so did that as well on this trip. By 6 AM I was back in town, heading home in an auto, reflecting back on the week that was...
Day 4 in Kayrala
The big day was finally here. He got up at 3 AM to go back to the temple for some alone time and he came back smiling. I knew he was ready. He was actually happy that he was going to get married. There was the usual chaos and confusion leading up to the marriage. I hear they do about 40 marriages in Guruvayur, a DAY !!! Now thats possible because each marriage ceremony lasts for about 4 mins....
When our turn came there was pushing and pulling to get all the main people into the crowded mandap. The priest then did his thing. Everyone was scrambling for a better look. There was a band somewhere but I could not see them but essentially the marriage itself was simple and uncomplicated. My friend entered the mandap as a bachelor and a few minutes later stepped out as a husband....Once the ceremony was completed we had the photo sessions and then after a mini reception in the hotel we were staying in, it was time to head back to our rooms and rush back to Calicut for the main reception.
Even though the marriage was complete, the drive back was still very stresssful because we had to be back in time for the start of the reception and I had to drive them back. We did however have time to stop for a bit near this bridge overlooking a river bed and it provided an excellent photo op. Word was the this river slowly dried during the summer months and you can actually see that in the pic. The reception went on without a hitch and by the end of the day we could barely even move. I just remember checking in to a nearby hotel by around 10 in the night (could not obviously stay at his place that night) and then checking out as soon as I hit the bed...
Day 3 in Kayrala
Day 3 and we are off to Guruvayur for the marriage. Guruvayur was about 110 kms away from Calicut. My friend and I were in the car along with his mom and a cousin and the rest of the marriage party that was coming along, the cousins and aunties and uncles and whoever else were related to him in one way or the other were in the blue bus ahead. We reached Guruvayur by around 5 in the evening and I took the chance to walk around. I have never been to a devotional/religious place like this and they say that Tirupathi is much more crowded!!!!. The line of people on the left seems to just go on and on and never seems to end. I spent about an hour there and barely saw the line move. I am not the types to even go to church on Sundays and I dont understand the kind of devotion one needs to have to actually go through this kind of strain in the maddening heat just for a moment or two with the diety inside. There is nothing wrong with having faith but all this...it just does not make sense to me...
Day 2 in Kayrala
Day 1 in Kayrala
Wow!!!!
The Calicut beach on a Sunday evening. Chock full of people...My friend and I spent more than an hour there talking about the good old days in college and the non sense things we have done when we have been together.
Hi Honey!!!! I'm Home!!!!
I came back to the Blore on Friday morning. It was an exhausting but an absolutely awesome week. Tons of things done, new places seen, new memories created...yeah sounds cliched. So what??? My blog!!!! And of course the main event, his marriage, which went off pretty smoothly in the end.
This had been the first time I took 5 days off from work. I have never considered myself to be a workaholic but then this was the first time that I chose to go ahead with a vacation in my 4+ yrs with this organization. Was it time well spent, you ask???
Answer : - Yes!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!.
Agreed, while this was not exactly one of those slow and relaxing vacations but time away from work, with friends and in a new, different place is still a vacation.
Kerala is an amazing place. I have never understood why folks who visit Kerala rave about the place but trust me, now I know. Kerala is a place that im gonna visit again and I already know where - the backwaters...Look out boss, I might just ask for another 5 day vacation before the year is over but thats for another posting, another day.
I thought it would be nice to put up some pics taken on each day of my trip so the next couple of postings are going to be about the trip. Just a warning the pics are rather large thanks to my 6 megapixel cam..I rule!!!!
Roll on Day 1...
Friday, April 27, 2007
A New Beginning...
I would be leaving by late Saturday night so my blog and me will be away from each other for a good 4 -5 days but I hope to make a happy reunion with it when I come back with pics and new memories to look back on...
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Random acts of Kindness...
WOW!!!! I am back home after another 12hr day in office but I have still dragged my butt over to the PC to work on my 2nd post. Hey, did I mention earlier???...WOW!!!!
So my shift was done and I made my way to the underground parking. I got into my green, very old and rickety Omni van, switched on the radio and pulled away from my space. I noticed a new rhythm, seemed strange, very unnatural but I shrugged my shoulders. Im too tired to care, that is until I saw one of the security guards running, waving and pointing, at the back end of my darling. I stopped and craned my neck to see what the fuss was about and there it was. Her right back tyre. Flaaaat!!!!
I spent a moment thinking about what had to be done and then figured it better to turn back and head back to my spot. Once there, I got out, cursing the gods and then proceeded to spend a good 10 mins looking for the jack. I looked under the carpeting and in the dickey and then followed the same routine twice over. But no jack!! I came to the conclusion that the Maruthi people have screwed me over and left me...jack- less. I despondently trudge back to the office. I was rushing home to enjoy mom's cooking but now that did not look likely. So, I went ahead and had breakfast with some folks from work and then it hits me.
The goddamn seat!!!
I swallow, choke the rest of my breakfast and run back to the van. I checked under the passenger side seat and lo!!!, sitting there snugly, right next to engine, is the jack!!!
Delighted, I reach down and try yanking it out but it does not budge.I try pushin, pulling, tugging, glaring angrily but hey, its not budging!!!. The damn thing is just not moving!!! And just when I feel like life has lost all meaning now that I have been bettered by my tyre jack, I hear muttering behind me. I turn back to find 2 men walking over to me. One indicates that I need to step back and the other continues muttering in Kannada to the first one. The first guy reaches in and in an instant returns with the stuborn jack in his hand. The other guy moves to the rear of the van and while I try in vain to attempt communication in English and my broken Hindi, they get busy with the tyre. I continue attempting conversation but its futile. They are here to help and help they shall. I shut my mouth and a min later another guy approaches. In what seems like nothing more than 5 mins the 4 of us had the van jacked up, the offending tyre off the van and the stepney pulled out from under the van and tightly secured in place of the flat. Even the tools were back in place. We did a slicker job than the best of F1 teams and all done by 4 guys who barely uttered a word to one another. I so desperately wanted to thank them but my Hinglish was a poor means of communication. At last I just said a genuine heartfelt thank you and gave each of them a firm handshake. They smiled and nodded their heads and went back to doing what they were doing before they met me.
Its time to call it a day...
Monday, April 23, 2007
I Actuallly made it..
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So these are definitions that we know and associate with the word blog. First time this smart kid heard the word, he started wondering..blog...hmmm....sounds funny. I remember how back then the word was associated with so much of hype. The new internet funda!!!
Now we all blog. (Notice the use of the word "We" inspite of this probably being my one and only posting ever...) My uncle blogs...my ex boss blogs...a lot of colleagues blogs...my best friends...err well they are as dufus as me so they dont actually blog. But thats not the point, I have never been one to open myself to people.....Atleast not until im really drunk or until it serves my purpose to be someone i really am not. Im amazingly lazy to even THINK of keeping a damn diary and to make the time to pen my thoughts and then go through the torture of viewing my day condensed to some scribblings on a sheet of paper.
..But Still....Im here..I actually made it